What happens in a coaching session with me?


I realized something recently Reader

“Private coaching session” can sound a little vague.

So let me make it more concrete.

When you book an hour with me you don’t have to show up with a five-year plan.

You don’t need a perfectly articulated goal.

And you definitely don’t need to impress me.

You might start with:

“I don’t know if this is even something you can help me with, but…”

And then we go from there.

Maybe you’re trying to make a decision.

Maybe you’re questioning something you’ve been doing for years.

Maybe you’re overwhelmed and can’t figure out why.

Maybe you keep repeating a pattern you thought you had already outgrown.

Maybe you’re successful but increasingly unhappy with the way you’re experiencing that success.

Maybe something in your life has changed and you’re not sure who you’re becoming on the other side of it.

Or maybe you simply know:

“Something needs to change.”

We don’t have to solve your entire life in 60 minutes, we most likely won't, and that's okay.

Here's something you might find surprising... that’s not the point.

The point is to create enough space to slow down, get curious, notice what’s really going on, and see what you couldn’t see while you were in the middle of it.

Sometimes you leave with a decision.

Sometimes with a next step.

Sometimes with a completely different question.

And sometimes the biggest relief is simply realizing:

“Oh. THAT’S what I’ve actually been dealing with.”

That’s coaching to me.

And that’s what I’m offering right now:

60 minutes of private coaching for $55

If there’s something you’d like to talk through, I’d love to sit with you.

BOOK YOUR $55 COACHING HOUR: https://hello.dubsado.com/public/appointment-scheduler/656e0dca0c28ccb2251be21a/schedule​

Peace + Grace,

Sonja

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